Sunday, 16 March 2025

The Importance of a Guru: A Lesson from a Pair of Spectacles

During my recent HTA fellowship course in Visakhapatnam, I had a simple yet profound realization. 

After taking a bath, I stepped out and began searching for my spectacles. Being myopic (short-sightedness) with lenses of about -5, it was nearly impossible for me to locate them without wearing them first. Frustrated, I asked my wife to help.

As we both searched, I found myself saying,

"With weak eyes, we won't be able to find our own specs until someone with specs helps us."

In that very moment, a deeper truth hit me—the significance of a guru (teacher) in one’s journey.

This realization also instantaneously reminded me of the Bhagavad Gita. 

 Despite his knowledge and past experiences, Arjuna's vision was clouded by emotions and maya (illusion)—just like my getting blurred vision without spectacles. It was only when Lord Krishna, his divine guru, guided him that he gained clarity and insight.

Krishna says in the Gita (Chapter 4, Verse 34): 

तद्विद्धि प्रणिपातेन परिप्रश्नेन सेवया | उपदेक्ष्यन्ति ते ज्ञानं ज्ञानिनस्तत्त्वदर्शिन: || 4.34||

"Approach a Guru with humility, ask questions with sincerity, and serve with devotion. The wise will impart knowledge unto you."

Just as I needed someone with good sight to help find my specs & thus my sight, we all living amidst overpowering maya, need a Guru to help us see beyond illusions, and guide us toward true wisdom.

A few key takeaways that I could make out of it:

1. Self-awareness is limited without guidance—just as a myopic person like me struggles to see clearly without glasses, we often struggle to perceive truth without the guidance of a guru.

2. Maya clouds our understanding—like Arjuna on the battlefield, our mind is often fogged by emotions, doubts, and illusions.

3. A Guru provides clarity—The role of a Guru is to illuminate the path, helping us see what we cannot on our own.

4. Seeking guidance is a sign of wisdom, not weakness—just as I sought help to find my glasses, we must seek a Guru to gain deeper understanding in life.

In the journey of knowledge and self-discovery, a Guru is like a pair of well-fitted spectacles—helping us see the world with clarity, focus, and wisdom.

Saturday, 15 March 2025

Cricket & Chanting - true surrender brings all else in its wake!

On March 09, 2025 at about 9 PM, we (me and my wife) were boarding the plane for Visakhapatnam, having reached Hyderabad in the morning from Lucknow. It was a long tiring day spending hours at the airport lodge, and taking a short but enriching visit to the Statue of Equality in between. 

There was another event unfolding the same moment—the final of the Champions Trophy between India and New Zealand. India was chasing a target of 250-something (probably 252). As I stood in the boarding queue with my wife in front of me, I overheard the familiar buzz of cricket commentary. Almost instinctively, my hand reached for my phone.

And then, a thought arose: Was I truly willing to trade my chanting for a mere cricket score? The temptation was strong, but wasn’t this exactly what Lord Krishna speaks of in the Bhagavad Gita—the struggle between the pull of the material world and the path of spiritual discipline?

अनन्याश्चिन्तयन्तो मां ये जना: पर्युपासते।

तेषां नित्याभियुक्तानां योगक्षेमं वहाम्यहम्॥ (भगवद्गीता 9.22)

"Ananyāśh chintayanto māṁ ye janāḥ paryupāsate,

teṣhāṁ nityābhiyuktānāṁ yoga-kṣhemaṁ vahāmyaham." (Bhagwat Gita 9.22)

("To those who are constantly devoted to Me and worship Me with love, I provide what they lack and preserve what they have.")

Taking a deep breath, I withdrew my hand from my pocket and resumed my chanting. In that very moment, as if to affirm my choice, I heard a voice from behind exclaim—"163 for 3!"

It felt as though the Lord Himself was testing me, and the instant I surrendered to the mantra-mārga, He chose to fulfill my trivial desire effortlessly. 

Perhaps, He was reminding me that true surrender brings all else in its wake.